Al-Anon & Alateen Family Groups | Information Services Grand Rapids Area 616-222-0632: Phone Answering Service
Al-Anon & Alateen Family Groups | Information Services Grand Rapids Area616-222-0632: Phone Answering Service 

Is Alateen for Me?

Has Your Life Been Affected by Someone Else's Drinking?

 

Alateen is for young people whose lives have been affected by someone else's drinking. Sometimes the active drinking has stopped, or the active drinker may not live with us anymore. Even though the alcohol may be gone, and the alcoholic gone or recovering in AA, we are still affected. Many of us have received help from Alateen or Al-Anon. The following 20 questions are to help you decide whether or not Alateen is for you.

 

1. Do you believe no one could possibly understand how you feel?


2. Do you cover up your real feelings by pretending you don't care?


3. Do you feel neglected, uncared for, or unloved?


4. Do you tell lies to cover up for someone else's drinking or what's happening in your home?


5. Do you stay out of the house as much as possible because you hate it there?


6. Are you afraid or embarrassed to bring your friends home?


7. Has someone's drinking upset you?


8. Are mealtimes, birthdays, and holidays spoiled because of drinking or others' reactions to the drinking?


9. Are you afraid to speak up for fear the drinking or fighting will start again?


10. Do you think the drinker's behavior is caused by you, other members of your family, friends, or rotten breaks in life?


11. Do you make threats such as, "If you don't stop drinking and fighting, I'll run away?"


12. Do you make promises about behavior, such as I'll "get better grades," or "keep my room clean," or "do anything you want," in exchange for a promise that the drinking and fighting will stop?


13. Do you feel that if the drinker loved you, she or he would stop drinking?


14. Do you ever threaten or actually hurt yourself to scare the drinker into saying, "I'm sorry," or "I love you"?


15. Do you or your family have money problems because of someone else's drinking?


16. Are you scared to ride in a car with the drinker?


17. Have you considered calling the police because of abusive behavior?


18. Do you avoid dating or having close friends because they may find out about the drinking or fighting?


19. Do you think your problems would be solved if the drinking stopped?


20. Do you ever treat teachers, friends, teammates, etc. unfairly because you are angry about someone else's drinking?

 

If you have answered "Yes" to any of these questions, Alateen may help you. Please call our confidential hotline (616-222-0632) to learn where you can find an Alateen meeting and connect with other young people whose family situation is very much like yours.



Reprinted by permission of Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc.

AISGR ANNUAL
FALL BANQUET
 
Thursday, November 8, at 6pm
First United Methodist Church
For more information see the Banquet Flyer or contact
Judi D. (616) 647-2920 or
Shirl M. (616) 813-9252

 

Fall Banquet Flyer
Banquet Flyer.pdf
Adobe Acrobat document [574.2 KB]

1ST FRIDAY
AL-ANON SPEAKER MEETING

 

See you on Friday,  November 2

7 – 8 pm, OPEN to non-members.

 

Trinity Lutheran

2700 Fulton St E

Grand Rapids, MI 49506

 

This meeting is OPEN to all.

 

AL-ANON / ALATEEN MEETING SCHEDULE (Printable)

Al-Anon Meeting Schedule
Updated July 2018. For best results, use 8.5" x 14" paper when printing.
July 2018 Al-Anon Meeting Schedule final[...]
Adobe Acrobat document [6.2 MB]
Print Print | Sitemap Recommend this page Recommend this page
This website is a service provided by the Al-Anon and Alateen Information Services of Grand Rapids Area (AISGR). It is our mission to provide services that help the community find Al-Anon and Alateen; to act as a resource for individuals as well as professionals within the community. For more information contact: info@aisgr.org Materials reprinted by permission of Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc.